Let Me Be Your Mirror is a part of a quote I read in the book Growing a Joyful Heart, and I’m pondering it with you today.

For Lent 2025, I’ll be writing new blog posts every day. I’m writing for just five unedited minutes on a quote of the day to deepen our faith in this Lenten season.

Day 33 of Lent 2025 – April 6

Pam Farrel is my good friend, and I always learn good lessons from her writing. This book on joy is just what I needed when I read it in 2023.

Let Me Be Your Mirror

The quote from the book that still sticks with me today is this one from her husband Bill. Here it is in context of a time Pam was struggling with doubt and lack of self-worth.

“Bill, fearful that I would spiral into depression, shot up a prayer to God for wisdom.

He came over, wrapped his arms around me, and said,

‘Let me be your mirror.

If you need to know how beautiful and godly you are, come see me and I will tell you.

From this moment on, let me be your mirror.'”

This is a beautiful picture of marital love, yet I think it has even broader application.

Let’s Be Each Other’s Mirrors

What if we decided to be others’ mirrors of encouragement?

For at least half of my life, I struggled with a low self-image due to bullying, criticism, and emotional abuse. I treasured the times when others spoke encouraging words to me. It took a long time for those messages to penetrate deep enough to make a difference. Yet I’m grateful for all the kindness of friends, teachers, pastors, and even strangers who decided to be mirrors of encouragement to me in my youth, early adulthood, and adulthood.

What if you told someone who is struggling that you will be their mirror? It reminds me of the movie The Help, in which the African American nanny Aibileen constantly spoke words of encouragement to the little white girl whom she dearly loved. The little girl’s own mother withheld love, but Aibileen freely offered it by serving as the little girl’s mirror of encouragement.

Let’s be each other’s mirrors. Determine that you will speak words of encouragement to inspire joy in people rather than tearing them down with criticism. You might be planting seeds for them that will grow into fruit many years later, just like people did for me when I was young.

There are many other encouraging devotions in this book on various topics. Get your copy of Growing a Joyful Heart HERE.

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Accept the mystery is a part of a quote I read in Julie Sunne’s book Sometimes I Forget, and I’m pondering it with you today.

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Day 32 of Lent 2025 – April 5

My writing friend Julie Sunne was kind enough to send me a copy of her book when it was first published. It’s all about God’s unchanging attributes in short devotional format. I have to admit, it was too painful for me to read at the time she sent it to me. My head was on board, but my heart was hurting as my relationship with God was suffering at the time. However, I’m glad to say that I’ve healed enough to read it now, and I’m gleaning good truths from it.

I’m sharing today’s quote from the chapter God Is Sovereign. This is a truth that has long comforted me about God. Yet my belief was put through a refining fire when Julie first sent me her book. I never stopped believing it. But it was hard to apply to crushing trauma that seemed so custom-fitted to me.

Sometimes Things Seem Unfair

Julie addresses this in another chapter named God Is Simple with these words that affirm so many of our feelings:

“Sometimes it seems God isn’t very caring or understanding. Sometimes things seem unfair. If all things flow through God’s sphere of influence before they get to us, why doesn’t He make them better…Was God punishing me for something? Was He ignoring my needs, or didn’t He care?”

That’s exactly how I felt when I received this book. It was just too painful to think of God being loving, kind, compassionate, etc. I knew those things to be unquestionably true with my whole mind. Yet my heart was in retreat from being so severely traumatized.

Accept the Mystery

Let’s return to the chapter from which today’s quote is drawn and look at it in context:

“Whatever difficult situation we face, the God of the universe is in charge of it. Whether large issues or seemingly small ones, He knows what’s going on, and He has a plan. As the Sovereign, He is allowing the hardship in this season for a reason. We may not understand, but when we accept the mystery of the Divine Supreme Being, believing He has control over all and is never caught off guard, we can choose trust over worry. We can look into our unexpected situation with expectancy for how He will use it in our lives – remembering He’s guiding it all.”

Julie shares with honesty about the huge trials she’s faced. Many are related to being a mom of a child with special needs. She is no stranger to what feels unfair or unjust. That’s why I respect and appreciate her testimonies in these devotions.

Trusting God with Hope

At the end of the book, she tells about going to a national park with her husband on their honeymoon. They saw charred ground from a recent forest fire. Even though they were both scientists who knew the earth would recover from disasters, the loss shook them.

However, decades later, she returned with her husband and children to the same area in Yellowstone. This is what she saw:

“Instead of charred earth, stretched a sea of green grass broken up by the purple, yellow, white, and red of various flowers. Lodgepole pines reached for the sky, while strawberries and huckleberries dotted the undergrowth, begging to be eaten. Life had sprouted from the ashes. It’s a testament to the goodness of a God who controls the universe – a God who transforms the endings we want into the glorious beginnings we need. Trust Him for your new beginning.”

I’m glad I am in a place now where I can accept the mystery. I can trust God over worry and hope for a new beginning after the traumas I’ve faced. I’m grateful Julie painted this beautiful picture of hope in her book while remaining honest about suffering.

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Break any stronghold in your life is a part of a quote I read in Barb Roose’s book Stronger Than Stress, and I’m pondering it with you today.

For Lent 2025, I’ll be writing new blog posts every day. I’m writing for just five unedited minutes on a quote of the day to deepen our faith in this Lenten season.

Day 31 of Lent 2025 – April 4

I purchased this book last year and I’m just now getting around to reading it. The timing is perfect as I resume full-time freelance work, which can be stressful because my income is not guaranteed.

This week my stress has been triggered over and over. I spent almost a whole day trying to get a file to load, but then had to start from scratch in a different program. In that stressful period, I questioned my own abilities to perform well. This was unnecessary because the problem was with the operating system, not me. However, because my autonomic nervous system was flooded, I attacked myself – that’s my normal setting due to years of emotional abuse.

Renouncing the Spirit of Chronic Stress

I picked up Barb’s book from my big stack of to-read books last night. This quote hit me in the heart. As I recently wrote, my pastor talked about the stronghold of despair in his sermon, which I never considered to be a stronghold in my life. Now Barb points out that chronic stress can be a stronghold too. I’m glad she did, because now I can pray more intelligently about it. My pastor said he started renouncing the spirit of despair in his life, and I will do that too – as well as the spirit of chronic stress.

I am a true-blue overachiever. It’s part of my DNA as an Enneagram 1 and a firstborn, and also as a gifted student. But my natural high achievement style has also been exacerbated by other factors. These factors include being a child of divorce since age 4 who was doing all the homeowner tasks I do now by age 10. I was  I’m starting to realize just how much those heavy burdens at a very young age are still impacting me now in my work and personal life.

Learning from Paul about Stress

Barb frames her book around the apostle Paul’s life. He was a natural high achiever, just like me. However, she points out that though Paul endured many stressful situations and wrote honestly about them, he still experienced God’s peace in spite of them. He was extremely productive without letting work rule his life. I’m looking forward to learning more from Barb as I continue reading this book, and applying the examples from Paul’s life to my own.

Are you dealing with chronic stress like I am? Get your copy of Stronger Than Stress HERE.

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You cannot change what you do not confront is a part of a quote I read in Craig Groeschel’s book Winning the War in Your Mind, and I’m pondering it with you today.

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Day 30 of Lent 2025 – April 3

Winning the War in Your Mind is a powerful book to help you change your thoughts, which shape your life. I like Craig Groeschel’s writing because it is clear, concise, and ringing with truth. It’s also filled with humor and humility, which make the lessons even more meaningful. You can see my Lenten post about another one of his books HERE.

In the past three years, I have battled depression, which is a battle in the mind. I know that’s where all our battles begin, and it’s where Satan can whisper lies to us. Though I’ve written two books on transforming your thought life, I needed to confront lies I believed that the enemy planted. Lies like “things are never going to get better for me,” or “the shoe is always going to fall,” which are rooted in a lifetime of abuse. I had to confront the underlying traumas to change my thought life, as recommended in THIS BOOK.

You Cannot Change What You Do Not Confront

This journey of greater self-awareness in my thought life is an important part of my healing process. In a support group I joined through my church, we learned to name our emotions out loud. This practice of naming my emotions is helping me gain self-awareness. Now when a thought life problem develops, I name the emotion I’m feeling before God. It helps to say, “God, the reason I’m thinking this is because I’m lonely right now.” The feeling can be changed based on the moment. Just acknowledging it before God out loud helps decrease the negative feeling’s power. After I confess my feeling, I renew my trust in God with an audible statement. In this way, I’m winning the war because I’m not ignoring the battle going on in my mind.

Craig’s book is a powerful tool for gaining self-awareness of your thought life problems. I think it’s a good read along with my book, which is a tool to point you toward specific scriptures to help you fight back in specific areas of struggle. In fact, I know my publisher gave me a contract for my book the same year Craig’s book was published, because the topic of “thought life” was what the Holy Spirit wanted readers to focus on that year, along with this popular book too.

More quotes from Winning the War in Your Mind:

• A lie believed as truth will affect your life as if it were true.
• Who you are today is a result of your thoughts in the past. Who you become in the future will reflect what you think about today.
• The battle for your life is won or lost in your mind. Your thoughts will control you, so you have to control your thoughts.

Get your copy of Winning the War in Your Mind HERE.

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The Enemy Indeed Attacks is a part of a quote I read in Cheryl Lutz’s book Securely Held, and I’m pondering it with you today.

For Lent 2025, I’ll be writing new blog posts every day. I’m writing for just five unedited minutes on a quote of the day to deepen our faith in this Lenten season.

Day 29 of Lent 2025 – April 2

Cheryl Pelton Lutz is a pastor’s wife and Bible teacher, and her husband Alan was my pastor in high school. I loved their family and even got to babysit their children a few times. I was so excited for Cheryl when her book Securely Held published, because publishing a book was a long-held dream of hers (and mine too).

Cheryl’s book reminds us that Jesus holds us in the storms of our lives. She has faced many trials in relationships, health issues, and ministry, which she details in her book. The quote I pulled from her book resonates most strongly with me. She writes about spiritual warfare with wisdom.

All of us in ministry will face severe spiritual attacks. That is true whether you are a pastor, teacher, writer, speaker, or influencer. Here is a list of some of the spiritual attacks I’ve faced in my ministry:

1. On the day my author copies were delivered and my devotion went live on a huge platform, six appliances in my home went out at once. Also, an area of abuse reached unprecedented heights.
2. When I obeyed God’s directive to post my thoughts online after watching The Sound of Freedom, a stalker approached me as a direct result of my viral YouTube video.
3. The week I published my most recent book, Hope for the Hard Days, I faced a devastating personal disappointment, and I “just so happened” to back into someone else’s car.
4. The day I bought a new Apple computer to be able to support other Christian authors in kingdom work, my dog’s other knee blew out, requiring expensive surgery.

I could list many other attacks, but this is enough to prove the enemy hates my guts. This is also the reason I’m not writing another book until I heal from the trauma I’ve experienced and build the emotional reserves I need to face inevitable attacks.

The Bible tells us to expect this:

• Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8 NIV
• For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12 NIV
• “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:11-12 NIV
• “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 NIV

God never tells us to expect the Christian life to be easy, especially if we are in ministry. That’s why I always tell my clients to expect spiritual warfare to ramp up when their books are publishing. It’s part and parcel of what we do. However, Jesus securely holds us when we are attacked, and he gives us victory in the spiritual realms. This truth keeps moving me forward even when I’m facing the inevitable attacks of moving onto the front lines for God’s glory.

Learn more about spiritual warfare in Cheryl’s book HERE.

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